May 13, 2012

How To Know If He’s The One To Marry

Girls ask me Dave how do I know if he’s the one? Well, there are a lot of things you can consider, here are a couple.

Number one, do you see sacrifice in this relationship? Is he willing to sacrifice for you?

I mean, really. Do you see ways that he goes out of his way to think more about you than himself? That’s key. Secondly, emotional connection.

You know the number one reason women today in America get a divorce?

It’s a lack of emotional intimacy in a relationship.

A lot of times that’s neglected in a relationship because a couple gets so physically involved with each other and they think maybe they got something, but then the years go by, if they get married, and they are missing this emotional connection.

Well the time to find out is before you get engaged.

So we have some kind of a soul to soul, heart to heart relationship?

Are we developing this wonderful friendship where we listen to each other and we build each other up? Do you see an emotion connection?

Consider those two factors in your relationship and you’re going to realize whether or not that this guy that you’re dating right now is really somebody special that perhaps you would love to be engaged to and ultimately marry.

About the author

Born and raised in California, Dr. Dave Gudgel has called Fresno, Sacramento, Bakersfield, Santa Barbara, Agoura Hills, Phoenix, and now Sunnyvale “home.”

Dave currently serves as the Lead Pastor of Bridges Community Church in Los Altos, CA. Prior to Bridges, Dave was the Senior Pastor of Agoura Bible Fellowship, a church in the northwest Los Angeles area for twenty-one years, and then the Senior Pastor of Bethany Bible Church in Phoenix, AZ for seven years.

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