Few things that is more upsetting and more hurtful than unfulfilled expectations and disappointments. Therefore, there is no reason for you to tell a girl who just met a week ago that you really like her and that you are crazy about her.
There’s no reason for you to tell someone you have just been dating for about a month that you’re in love with her and that you should move in together and that you want to spend the rest of your life with her.
It necessarily takes time to get to know someone to a degree where you can comfortably say that you are ready to live with each other and you want to spend the rest of your life together and it certainly takes more than one month, no matter how much you like each other and no matter how special and wonderful your connection is.
Guys are tempted to make such big statements to women when they really like those women and when they want to make sure that the girl they really like so much knows exactly how strongly they feel about her.
However, that serves no purpose but only makes the possible breakup down the road more hurtful.
So, let a certain amount of time pass before you make those big statements and then those statements will be much more meaningful to the girl and to yourself because it will be so much more that you are basing them on, so much more knowledge of each other, understanding of each other, and a much more stable feeling.
Like in many other aspects of life, under promising and over delivering when it comes to dating is so much better than over promising and under delivering because in almost any other aspect of life, actions speak so much louder than words.
So, let your actions speak first. Let your actions prove how you feel about the woman and then put the icing on the cake by telling those special things when that special moment arrives.
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