It’s perfectly normal, and even natural, for every woman to try to look the best she can.
Women spend a lot of time, money, and energy to try to find the right clothing, the right shoes, the right makeup, and other accessories to make themselves as attractive as possible.
However, some women go way too far and they look way over dressed, too provocative, or too flashy in situations which are rather casual, and this hurts them more than it helps when it comes to dealing with guys.
Some guys will simply be intimidated by that and they won’t talk to a woman like that at all. Others will assume that she’s hard to please and that she’s high maintenance, and, again, they don’t want to deal with her.
Others will not be able to pass her looks and they will be completely preoccupied with what she looks like without paying any attention to what she’s talking about or what she’s thinking.
Unless you are at a cocktail party or a black and white ball or a high end fundraiser of some kind or some other upscale event, there is no reason for you to look like a fashion model on the runway.
It will make guys feel uncomfortable and comfort is a foundation of a healthy interaction, especially when it comes to initial interaction when you meet the guy for the first time.
So, remember the value of subtlety. There are many ways to look elegant, to look sexy, and look classy without going over the top and without looking like your trying too hard.
And, if you wondering whether you’re looking like you’re trying too hard is unattractive, think about all those guys out there who try too hard and how unattractive they are to you.
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