Whose Job Is It Anyway, Sexual Pleasure and Responsibility?

Whose Job Is It Anyway, Sexual Pleasure and Responsibility

Who is responsible for the quality and satisfaction of a couple's sexual experience? Who is responsible to initiate and orchestrate the event? Generally students and patients respond with both members are equally responsible for happens during the sexual experience. Ideally, that’s the right answer, but in this culture the male usually believes that he is responsible. Just by virtue of his sex, he is the one in charge of what is supposed to happen and be held accountable for the outcome of … [Read more...]

5 Ways to Make Foreplay Work

5 Ways to Make Foreplay Work

When living a busy life with a job and kids, intimacy is often difficult to accomplish. Dinner, clean up, homework, baths, and you have got to relax there sometime. Take in to account that all of this has to be done within a time span of four hours (from 5pm – 9pm.) It is a lot to do. The bed is calling you and it is not saying, “hey good looking.” Instead, you drop off quickly and the process starts all over again. Your sex life suffers and ultimately your marriage does too. Foreplay is … [Read more...]

Male Sexuality: Debunking Some Myths

Male Sexuality Debunking Some Myths Nicole Van Ness

Guys, this one is for you.  I hear all kinds of things in my office, and in life in general, that point to some damaging myths men carry around with them about what it means to be a man. Don’t get me wrong, I’m all for having ideals and goals to live by, standards to hold yourself to, and chosen values.  Unfortunately, some of these standards are damaging, unhelpful, and not even true. In this segment, I’ll look at some of the big ones, and address how you can get away from them.  … [Read more...]

How To Have The Best Sex Ever With Him

How To Have The Best Sex Ever With Him Jay and Laura Laffoons

Sex techniques are a dime a dozen.  We’re not going to give you the hot new way to wiggle your fingers and make your man squirm.  What we are going to give you are three proven techniques to have the best sex your man will ever enjoy! While spontaneous sex has its place in a relationship, it is usually not the BEST sex a couple will experience.  Much like birthdays, vacations and holidays, the best sex is filled with anticipation. Why? Because anticipation engages your mans largest … [Read more...]

237 Reasons Why People Have Sex

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Psychologists have identified three reasons why people have sex: procreation, sexual pleasure, and to strengthen the bonds of relationships. But University of Texas at Austin researchers have discovered more reasons—234 more. Psychologists Cindy Meston and David Buss surveyed 442 people, aged 17 to 52, asking just one question: “Please list all the reasons you can think of why you or someone you have known has engaged in sexual intercourse.” The myth is that men and women have very … [Read more...]