How to build intimacy in your relationship

How to build intimacy in your relationship

The couples I see in my private practice frequently come to see me because they are disconnected, lonely and isolated from each other. Often they are not sexually active. Or if they are having sex, it is disconnected and one of the partners, usually the woman isn’t enjoying it, but just going along to please her husband because she thinks she should. The following is a list of things to do that build emotional intimacy. Intimacy is “In to Me You See”-starts with oneself. I tell my … [Read more...]

How To Feng Shui Your Bedroom

How To Feng Shui Your Bedroom

When people redecorate, they usually start with the public areas like the kitchen, guest bathroom and the living room; then if there is room in their budget, they may get around to decorating the bedroom. In traditional Feng Shui, there are three important areas. No surprise that the bedroom is one of them. So in Feng Shui the bedroom is one of the most important rooms to start with. Remember, Feng Shui is about creating a supportive environment for you. If you are like most people, you … [Read more...]

How To Romance 24/7-365

How To Romance 24:7-365

OK guys, Valentine’s Day is a couple weeks in the rearview mirror. The flowers have died, the chocolates have been eaten, and you may be scratching you’re head wondering why the romance flame has been snuffed out. If you’re like the majority of guys, your idea of romance is limited to red helium balloons and over-priced flower deliveries, once a year. Trust me when I say that it doesn’t have to be that way! It shouldn’t be that way! Romance is much more than a last-minute … [Read more...]

6 Types of Kisses: From Passion to Empty Air

6 Types of Kisses From Passion to Empty Air Dr. Karen Gail Lewis

A kiss.  Four letters but packed with multiple meanings. Even staying with the dictionary definition of  a “caress with lips,” there are still several different types of kisses – from the most casual to the most passionate to the most intimate. I’ve separated out five categories of kisses.  1. Hand Shake Kiss This kiss is a neutral way to say hello.  There may or may not be any affection between the two people.  A variation is the Air Kiss.  Everyone recognizes this, … [Read more...]

4 Steps to Improve Your Love Life

4 Steps to Improve Your Love Life

Men have a natural instinct for interpreting their environment. This goes back hundreds of years to them being out in the wild, hunting buffalo or other wild animals to bring home to feed the women and children. Natural providers, that’s what men are. While they were out hunting wild animals, the women were in the caves or nearby picking berries. They paid attention to detail. If they chose the berry with the red spots instead of the one with white spots, for example, they could … [Read more...]