David settled into a chair in my office and asked me, “Why do nice guys seem to finish last with women, while jerks tend to be successful?” If you're a single, heterosexual man who can’t seem to date the girls you desire, you've surely exclaimed some version of David’s lament more times than you can count: “I’m one of the nicest guys I know, how come women treat me like crap?” Well, the answer to the Nice Guy Syndrome is multifaceted, but first, let’s define a few terms. … [Read more...]
Video Transcript There are at least three major reasons why you might enjoy dating a woman who is older, who is divorced, or who has children much more than dating a younger girl. The first reason is that older women tend to be more interesting and their company might be much more stimulating to you. Older women had more life experience. They have developed a richer perspective on life. So, it’s only natural that they will have more interesting opinions, more interesting views, and … [Read more...]
Video Transcript Some guys complain that they are being used by the women they are going out with and dating and that these women are too high maintenance and expect them to spend way too much money when they are going out and doing things together. However, there is no reason to blame women for that. The only reason that the guy will ever feel like he’s being used and the only reason the guy will actually be used by a woman is because he allows that to happen. No woman will ever … [Read more...]
Video Transcript Hey guys. I want to talk today about one example of how you can take a bad pick up line and turn it into a great pick up line. Now, as an example, I would like to take one pick up line that a lot of dating advice sources suggest is very effective. And, many of those books and other kinds of dating guides suggest that if you see a woman in a casual situation and you would like the conversation with her, you should say something like this, oh I really like your … [Read more...]
Video Transcript Few things that is more upsetting and more hurtful than unfulfilled expectations and disappointments. Therefore, there is no reason for you to tell a girl who just met a week ago that you really like her and that you are crazy about her. There’s no reason for you to tell someone you have just been dating for about a month that you’re in love with her and that you should move in together and that you want to spend the rest of your life with her. It necessarily takes … [Read more...]
