In this video, Clay talks about signs that tell if your ex is missing you.
Talking positively about you
If you hear from friends of your ex that he or she has been talking about you, particularly in positive ways, it’s a clear sign that you are on their mind. Your ex may do this with friends, family, or co-workers. This doesn’t mean that you should run out and do a survey to determine if such pleasant memories are being discussed, but it does mean that you still matter. If, on the other hand, the discussions reported to you feature some of your worst habits or most unkind gestures, you may be assured that you have some clean-up work to do if you want to re-kindle the relationship.
Making plans that include you
Once again, if your ex really hated you, he or she probably won’t be calling to tell you one of your favorite bands is playing across town, nor will he offer to accompany you to see them. If your ex is making notes and taking action around what you like and things that will please you, it means that you still hold a place in his/her heart. This is a very good sign, but it’s no guarantee. Don’t allow yourself to slip back into old habits that contributed to your initial break-up.
Creating a future in which you play a part
Chances are, if your ex calls you to remind you that you’re supposed to go to his sister’s wedding together, he hasn’t let go of the affection he feels for you. (Or he hasn’t had the courage to tell his sister that you broke up.) If friends and family tell you that your ex is still planning to (insert favorite activity here) with you next year, you may also count it on the plus side of a relationship re-union. Unless you have children together, un-coupled partners don’t usually go out of their way to include the ex in special events or even the ordinary ones.
Knowing your ex is still fond of you can be very liberating. You may feel that you have a new lease on your old relationship. Remember, though, your old relationship may have had its good moments, but there were problems too. Unless you take steps to move beyond those old mistakes, you will end up with the same unhappy results that you did before.
About Clay Andrews
Clay and Mika are the creators of Ex Solution Program and help couples get back together.
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